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[Sinister]

Very funny.

So do you. Its spelling, not spellings.

Anyway. The "I love you" saying still works on college chicks. Reason why is because its still those words that have some meaning and normally are used for to get laid quciker. Most college girls were never used by an asshole boyfriend. However... this all depends on the area of the college and where they live and come from.

So if you met a chick that comes stright out of the low class areas. Then yeah, the whole "I love you" bit ain't going to work. On the other hand. If you met a chick that comes from a decent class area where shes got more brains than street knowlage, then yes. The whole "I love you" to her will work on her but she'll see (doing it by my method and advise) that you'll mean it.

She won't think its just some joke.

Originally Posted by Anderson

"I love you" phrase only works in high school, I would think. College girls are smarter than that.
Sinister, you ought to work on your spellings.

[Keng]

Most Women love men who treat them like crap.

[Enkai]

I don't have that much in the way of dating tips since I have only had one boyfriend. I'll say this much though: don't make empty promises just to make your bf/gf happy. That was what eventually drove my bf and I apart. He was saying that he'd do all this stuff, but he never did them. Of course, that's more for the long term relationship.

[Sinister]

Its why promises are not ment to be made. Unless you are certain you can keep it. Long-term relationships and love within the mix. Can clog the sense of judgement. So we all end up making promise to only have them latger in the long run, shatter our hearts and only hurt and suffer. Turning into what was once a serenity of a relationship. to something chaotic. Without even seeing it.

My best advise for such matter. Always have your eyes open and your mind cleared. never give into the safety of the relationship. Things at first always make it apper it will be good and perfect but the unseen cancer of downfalls invades and that were we alone.. doom our selves to a bad ending of a relationship and the first sign of such.. is verble fighting. If your unable to sit down and talk things out. Leave the relationship the moment you see the warning.

Yours Truly
Sin

Originally Posted by Enkai

I don't have that much in the way of dating tips since I have only had one boyfriend. I'll say this much though: don't make empty promises just to make your bf/gf happy. That was what eventually drove my bf and I apart. He was saying that he'd do all this stuff, but he never did them. Of course, that's more for the long term relationship.

[Ketcham82]

Originally Posted by Keng

Most Women love men who treat them like crap.

In some ways this is true. Women have a masochistic behavioral tendency. Women's drive to have sex, losing their virginity is a painful experience. Women's drive to have babies, having babies, as told by many, is painful.

But these days, most women will give you the hand if you come off too strong too soon. Keep that in mind.

[Ketcham82]

Sinister makes some really good points. Though his strategy usually gets him in the sack, most guys want a quick fix.

For a quick fix, turn to the places where everyone goes to have fun--parties. It is at a party where you have your chance to make a discrete selection and make your approach in a casual way. Always start with basics and then as soon as you know they're willing to share information with you, start asking the daring questions. Once you get their trust, get closer to them and begin to make physical contact (not too much, don't want to scare them). Then ask the person to walk around and have a more private conversation. And then ask to dance. Dance for as long as you have to and begin to make more physical contact. When taking a break, ask about relationship status (married, divorced, widowed, bf/gf) and then dance some more. After a couple of drinks you can start making out and then ask for a phone number. Never leave without a phone number.

After a couple of days, you'll be in the shack in no time.

NOTE: This advice applies to very few people who have some experience in talking to women/girls and can talk their way into bed.

[Mike]

Originally Posted by Keng

Most Women love men who treat them like crap.

Dude I don't understand girls half the time. My last ex left me and got hooked up this dumb@$$. But when I think about it, I think it was for the best. Any tips for a guy who wants a long term relationship and not a quickie?

[Keng]

Originally Posted by Mike

Dude I don't understand girls half the time. My last ex left me and got hooked up this dumb@$$. But when I think about it, I think it was for the best. Any tips for a guy who wants a long term relationship and not a quickie?

Don't commit in a relationship if you are the only one into it.

[Ketcham82]

Originally Posted by Mike

Dude I don't understand girls half the time. My last ex left me and got hooked up this dumb@$$. But when I think about it, I think it was for the best. Any tips for a guy who wants a long term relationship and not a quickie?

For a long term relationship you just have to be a good guy. Always give the girl presents, flowers and call her every other day to every three days unless she calls you. Ask her out a lot and take her to nice places.

[Keng]

Originally Posted by Ketcham82

For a long term relationship you just have to be a good guy. Always give the girl presents, flowers and call her every other day to every three days unless she calls you. Ask her out a lot and take her to nice places.

Ya, first time you give single flower, next time is double and triple and therefore...not a good way imo.

[Sinister]

Originally Posted by Anderson

"I love you" phrase only works in high school, I would think. College girls are smarter than that.
Sinister, you ought to work on your spellings.

and one more thing.. here is something worth reading on spelling (more like a joke but I thought it made a better reply)

Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosnt mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae.

[Sinister]

Originally Posted by Ketcham82

For a long term relationship you just have to be a good guy. Always give the girl presents, flowers and call her every other day to every three days unless she calls you. Ask her out a lot and take her to nice places.

Calling everyday is a bad thing. If you call everday. its going to show them they got YOU wraped around their finger. No. You want to keep everything 50/50. Sure.. You'll call.. as long as she calls you back. if she don't and she ask's why "Why have you not been calling <Your Name Here>?" And you come out and say "Well I'd like to keep things fair. Everything is a two way street. keep it fair and so will I" and this wills how her. Look. you don't have her wraped around your finger and she don't have you the same way.

However.. this can turn out in three possable ways. Depending on the women you date. One of the Three may happen.

1) She may find it as a challenge to get you and to owenz (slang for getting you around her finger) and she'll fight hard for it till she relizes she can't do it.

2) She may like you know what you want and may be very submissive to you and give in and do as what you want without you knowing it.

or

3) she may dislike it all together and she wants to be the one in charge and she'll just leave.

In my cases, I've had 2 & 3. However.. I've seen 1 happen to other friends of mine.

As for that quick Fix in getting laid. Well durning the week. we work (some of us) and the reast of us ( I hope) goto college or even do both. So there is hardly no time for getting laid (nearly) expection to weekeds. (unless those annoying tests are coming up)

Well. Now this all determs the type of crowd you hang around with. I personally hang around with all types (Due to whatever mood I'm in) and so I knew a few dozen people whom party and party big. Okay. For the quick Fix. Meet some of these people (most of them are pot smokers and beer drinkers) Obvious signs for the best people to choose out. These are the people that will get alot of chicks to come.

Anyway, Once getting to know a few of these people and you goto their parties. Walk around and talk to all the chicks there. Spit your game to every singel one. In the same night, you'll get laid a few times. Reast of the days, you'll have their numbers and stright out get to the them "hey, lets ____" and they'll be like what time, place, and where? and so.. you got that taken care of.

Now if your shy around women and seriously can't do this. (god forbid) Then try your local internet chat room. (i've done this once when I was in high school. Some of you may remember WebTV?!) and so I met this local chick in a local Los Angles chat room. Typeed in some slick words. (She worked at night) and then the next day.. well.. same day since me and her were up all night to morning talkng in that Chat Room. I got to bang her a few nights and then well, i cut her off. What made her easy. She was a pot smoker (At the time so was I) and well.. thats what made it easy.


So these are my advise and Tips for some of ya. I think I covered all grounds of the matter. For now.

Yours Truly
Sinister

P.S. We Should get all these good tips and advise and make a book that says for the title "Poor mans Tips to Dateing or getting Laid"? LoL
However.. we all get together nad make it a group project and cahs in on it?! Wicked..

[Sinister]

Ty for the Kind Words.

Forgot to post a reply tot his one on it >.< but I got to the quick fix part.

Originally Posted by Ketcham82

Sinister makes some really good points. Though his strategy usually gets him in the sack, most guys want a quick fix.

For a quick fix, turn to the places where everyone goes to have fun--parties. It is at a party where you have your chance to make a discrete selection and make your approach in a casual way. Always start with basics and then as soon as you know they're willing to share information with you, start asking the daring questions. Once you get their trust, get closer to them and begin to make physical contact (not too much, don't want to scare them). Then ask the person to walk around and have a more private conversation. And then ask to dance. Dance for as long as you have to and begin to make more physical contact. When taking a break, ask about relationship status (married, divorced, widowed, bf/gf) and then dance some more. After a couple of drinks you can start making out and then ask for a phone number. Never leave without a phone number.

After a couple of days, you'll be in the shack in no time.

NOTE: This advice applies to very few people who have some experience in talking to women/girls and can talk their way into bed.

[Ketcham82]

Ok sinister, you need to be a little more considerate about my audience here. Most of the guys I see struggling with girls do not usually have the skills or looks to make the first move. That's why i designed this thread to orient those that have never had their foot in the door.

I know what it's like to be out there without any words of advice or experience. I've had girls come up to me from time to time, but that wasn't always the case. I was the loneliest guy in my freshman year and now I'm constantly surrounded by girls.

My word to the guys who want to get started have to give up on one thing: don't try to figure out girls. Girls are complicated and always will be. But there are simple ways to make them melt.

Words don't cut it. Girls like guys who get into action. Don't lavish a girl with sweet words. Take her out, hug her a lot and make out with her. Talking comes later.

I personally don't like the "easy" girls, the pot-smokers or slutty ones. I like the adventure of taking the time to woo a girl.

And there's plenty of ways to make a hook up in school, in class or in the middle of a test.

[Keng]

Most popular thread to date!!!!

[Admin]

Originally Posted by Keng

Most popular thread to date!!!!

I agree! This thread deserves five stars.
Also note: There are more females in the world population (according to the 2000 Census) so guys should not have any problem hooking up.

Originally Posted by Sinister

Now if your shy around women and seriously can't do this. (god forbid) Then try your local internet chat room. (i've done this once when I was in high school.

The popularity of new online dating services mean that more people are relying on these dating services rather than the old tradition. I would think asking your friends to hook you up is much better than using the dating websites.

[Sinister]

Originally Posted by iKwak

The popularity of new online dating services mean that more people are relying on these dating services rather than the old tradition. I would think asking your friends to hook you up is much better than using the dating websites.

Depends on the friends. Some friends won't help ya and just laugh and mock ya (maybe) and then you got those that will help ya but even thats weird cause sometimes it leads to the blind date thing and well.. its just kinda weird but works for most people.

As for the online dateing. it has its ups and downs. The ups: You get to know the person for the person. Not by looks or who they know but you get to know them for them. very quickly and very fast. The Downs: Their apperence may not.. best attract you and you may find out what alot they said was a lie and thats the major disapointment.

Really its all a flip of a coin. You may have met the ones that apper as liers and have a bad rep but really are not the person people make them seem to be or they are what people make them seem to be. It falls under the whole "Take a Chance" and that alone is true. because what is life with out "chances" and "risks"? So its really just give and take. Rare moment people will find someone that meet to what they look for entirely. From whom the person is to how they look.

Yours Truly
Sinister

[Sinister]

Originally Posted by Ketcham82

Ok sinister, you need to be a little more considerate about my audience here. Most of the guys I see struggling with girls do not usually have the skills or looks to make the first move. That's why i designed this thread to orient those that have never had their foot in the door.

I know what it's like to be out there without any words of advice or experience. I've had girls come up to me from time to time, but that wasn't always the case. I was the loneliest guy in my freshman year and now I'm constantly surrounded by girls.

My word to the guys who want to get started have to give up on one thing: don't try to figure out girls. Girls are complicated and always will be. But there are simple ways to make them melt.

Words don't cut it. Girls like guys who get into action. Don't lavish a girl with sweet words. Take her out, hug her a lot and make out with her. Talking comes later.

I personally don't like the "easy" girls, the pot-smokers or slutty ones. I like the adventure of taking the time to woo a girl.

And there's plenty of ways to make a hook up in school, in class or in the middle of a test.

Bold truth is bold truth. We can opnly give so much advise. I've been through most of these stages guys go through while dateing and trying to hook upw ith chicks but you always have to show the reailty and open options.

However the last option I forgot to list is this:
To break out of a shy side or have a hard time finding a girlfriend. Why not trying to hang out at places you can relate to? Try hanging out at video game shops. So if you like them and you find a chick in there that has the same taste. You have a topic to Start with.

Another would be conventions, concerts, etc. The list goes on but yuse a location you can relate to and use as a starting topic. This helps break the ice. Also what does thats already been said, classes and tests. Sure those work too.
However.. there is a downfall to dateing while in college. Is that sometimes you might meet that chick that is the type that if you break upw ith her.. you may have the same classes with her and such and you may have to work with her. Well everything is going to be akward and shes going to try to give ya a bad rep among her friends and her friends tell their friends and such. Yes a childish move but its known but rarely done. You have to be aware of these risks but if your perpare for that. Take it head on. Face that fear and do it.

Also on the last note of the matter. Sometimes just facing your fear head on works. Lets say your shy. I've had a friend give me this advise in my younger days and now I'm basicly passing it on. You have to swallow that fear and stright out ask. lets say you've seen the chick a few times and perhaps met her in line while getting a snack. Talk to her. Ask her about her day. (Or even what time it is. if you don't know) and these are great things that work to break that ice. Once doing so. Say "hey, maybe we can meet later to talk more?" and once you say that. She'll more than likely won't mind and work on the friendship to possablely leading to more.

Thats all my best advise and also the bold truth.

Yours Truly
Sinister

[Admin]

Happy Birthday Sinister.
Off-topic: Is anyone really worried that they will not find a date or a partner in college?