| To get the nerve to get the girl you want, remember one thing: do the things you fear doing the most.
That is an excellent piece of advice that I've come to learn.
Another good piece of advice: Start from the bottom and work your way up. In terms of confidence and approaching girls, I suggest start dating the ugly girls and then work your way up with the prettier girls.
It works well in two different ways. One, your confidence goes up and you begin to understand the basic mechanics of dating a girl with someone that probably doesn't mind see you fail the first couple of times. Two, other girls, as they see you, begin to see that you're "dating" material and someone who dates girls "not based on looks." (even though you're a bastard)
This strategy worked well for me. |