| I'd thought this topic make good for my first post on these forums.
Well to get the first fact out. I'm a guy (obviously) and I have a few ways of going about the dateing spot.
I've read and looked over the post's to see whats covered and to see what I've agreed with. I've so far only agreed with the idea of women likeing men being stright forward but also honest.
Through my times of dateing and looking and searching. I've found that look, you show women what you want and what you perhaps look for in a relationship. I've informed them basicly like this.
"I'm stright out bold and honest. I tell it how it is and I expect the same in return, however.. as they say. the truth hurts and if you feel a question may offened you with my answer, you should be ready for that when you ask that question."
That right there is basicly my ace. What it does, is inform them that I don't hold nothing back. That I don't tolrate the drama or the bs that sometimes can pop up. Cause I'll stright out walk away if any drama pop's up. The women I have dated with this used experience have grown to respect me and even if the relationship did not work out, they are currently my best friends and also still respect me for their own reasons.
Yes, my tip sounds rude and very boild to some people but you know what, I've relized more of the 'respectable' women will be drawn to you and those of on the more loyal side. Don't get me wrong, i don't down the party type of women but I just.. found them through my own experience. To be not worth the effort. Due to bad experiences in the past.
On the other hand. As I've noticed through my dateing years. I found that writeing poems to express feelings when it comes to those 'Special Times' or "moments' that it helps. This is for if your seeking a long-term relationship guys. It works best if you're able to write a poem but not one formed of thought but formed out of what you feel. Yes.. any other time most women will tolrate us not to be the so 'not so romantic' type of person but they enjoy knowing that we can be.
beside writeing poems, try taking on romantic dinners when you wish to express your love towards her. (again for those in long-term relationships) but try this after you been with her for six months or more or even year or more. I advise more than a year. Reason why i say do these things. If shes the very careing type of person that seeks to take care of you mentel wise, phy and emotinally. Then she deserves such special treatment in return beside showing the same treatment right back. She'll see that you care and love her greatly.
However.. I've learned that if you show this too much, the day that your not able to be so nice or rmantic (due to disbutes and such). She may get up and leave. So you must always show. That when you go about doing soft, gentel or romantic things. Always do them when you feel their needed. Not done on V-day or her brithday but on the moemnts you feel that its time you show that side of your self to her.
In simple words, know when to be the lion but at times, show her that soft kitten she loves and adores. The person she fell in love with.
This is just my past experience and my advise from what I've learned. I hope it becomes useful to some of you.
Yours Truly
Sin |