| OMIGOSH - you guys are soooo funny. To tell you the truth, as a young female (5'9" brunnette and leggy) I know I'm not looking for some smooth talker - and guys don't need to be confident either. I think that when girls say they are looking for "honesty" in a relationship they mean something different. A guy can make himself to appear honest... but that's not it. It's sincerity. It's being able to be honest and mean it - and showing that you mean it.
And I'm sorry, but if your guru for dating is Tom Leykis - you've got some problems. Yeah that guy can buy his chicks.. but I don't think any of you guys really want to "buy" chicks. If you want to find a girl like Tom Leykis gets... go to Hooters, but I guarantee you guys won't be happy with that. Girls attracted to that type are stupid and you would all get bored with that type of girl because she would not be your intellectual equal. (Think about it... is that type of girl really going to sit around while you're toying with your computer?????.. no offense, but I don't think you guys are willing to give that up - NOT FOR ALL THE SEX IN THE WORLD. admit it!
God - you guys should only be as funny and regular as you are on this forum. I love popping in to see what you all are talking about (THE SOY MILK THREAD IS HILARIOUS).
In addition..... I am a fairly attractive girl, but I wouldn't touch a really good-looking guy with a ten-foot pole. I think that smooth talkers and good-looking guys have it to easy and since they have those qualities they don't bother to rely on wit and intellect - what I find the most attractive in a man.
All that we really ask is that you don't have to be Fabio .... just respect yourself. If we know a OK-looking man with great characteristics can treat himself with respect by keeping "clean" we know that he could respect us too.
Back me up on this ZOE.
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